Online dating and the narcissist
After a rather disconnected experience sitting through an experimental movie, I ended the conversation. She had more than one home, so I never new about her other life. Kathleen Hi Kathleen, Thanks for commenting and for reading my books.I met two of the international contacts, I traveled to one, the other traveled to meet me, and in both cases it was obvious that we would be friends, but no more. she broke up with me in an e mail I read after I got out of the hospital, saying she’s going to work on her relationship with her husband of 35 years. I met her at the hospital she works at, She is a ceo of. I wish I had an easy answer to help with your anger, but it’s definitely a process. There are typically four phases to recovery from these relationships, which would require more than I can offer here in the comments, but a good place to start would be the Beginner’s Healing Toolkit that I have for free here on the site.So I said, 'let me work on it' and the next day I came up with something better, which she liked.I set up a date for last Wednesday night, and she seemed to be interested.
Of the ones who were not obviously loaded, obvious predators, or blatantly insulting – that is, about 75% – The balance wanted a pen pal or a woman to call them. Nothing worth telling – no need to upgrade the experience with a story. I remember checking it out after a long term relationship ended six years ago, and it seemed a colorful and fun place to explore online dating and see “what’s out there”.I disagree; it's rude, disrespectful and abusive behavior to say nothing of childish. Whatever the majority decides is moral generally flies, so I suppose if a majority of people behaves in a certain way it could be considered morally acceptable from their relative perspective. However on the flip side of that, I am a narcissist and I have used online dating in the past as a means of getting attention.It basically amounts to saying, "Tee hee, I used you to get attention and didn't reciprocate or treat you well." I don't understand the question. I come across as extremely charming and like I am really interested to start with but then for some reason and I dont really know why just lose interest, probably because I have had the attention I needed to fill the gap when I have been feeling low. Better to meet people offline like at hobby clubs or church if you go to one.And yes, I agree, it's not the behaviour of a well balanced person.
Hi Kim my advice for anyone who is involved with a narissist.. Pack your bags anger as far away from them as you can. They have to put you Down to f3l good about themselfs sad really. I am sorry that you went through this, particularly in the wake of a break up.
that’s up to you but it’s good to be aware that they all contain a LOT of narcissists and to protect yourselves accordingly – thankfully most of them have ways to block folks.